Monday, August 25, 2008


The TRO was dismissed because she didn't show Alhamdulillah. We can't talk so I can only hope that things will get better from here. Insha Allah the next date is the 10th of September so I have to focus and keep working towards that as a goal. Throw myself into work and get as much done as possible. My Mom says that I need to become goal oriented to deal with my depression. In my first marriage I made it a mental note not to get depressed, but since I lost my kids it has been a challenge. I have goals that I want to do while I am here and Insha Allah I just need to get them done. I think I will probably start to list some here. Today went well and it is still not over.


  1. Salaam Alaikum,

    I'm glad this step is over and you are tackling the next steps as they come. Your mom's advice is solid in my opinion -- thank God you have her to lean on. I pray for you all and that you and Sakinah will work out a way to both be in the kids' lives.

    Take care,

  2. asalaam alaikum,

    my prayers are with you and your wife. there are two sides to every story so I am not going to congradulate you on the court preceedings today. But I will agree with PM and say I am glad that this step is over and you and your wife can move on from here.

    As always I wish you the best. But I cant help but from wondering have you and your wife learned anything from these trails and tribulations in your lives lately.

    Sometimes the worst enemy other than Iblis is ourselves. We can cause ourselves such turmoil. But Allah(swt) has made it so we can also cause ourselves such bliss and tranquility. alhamdulillah

    As I told your wife earlier after harship comes ease.

    I hope things will work out and hopefully you two can reconcile.
    Those innocent children deserve a loving and caring envoirment. They can see and feel all of the hostility around them.

    And if you two cant work it out I hope you two will work together in peace to give these children the wonderful developments they need.

    Allah knows best......

    I will donate to your legal fees..later this week.

    on another note
    And if anyone knows of anyone else in need please,clothing, food, finance, let me know.....I am trying to exceed my charity from previous years......Ramadan is so close..........and I am so fortunate......


  3. salam alayk sister nasriyah, i would not have put this here if i could access your blog directly.

    A brother had an accident while traveling to the venue of his nikaah on his wedding day, totally paralyzed now and he needs to undergo an operation to be able to walk again and to be a man again, the organization in the link below have helped campaign for assistance but there is still a long way to go. I saw your request for anyone who may need help and thought i should just chip this in, please this is for everyone, if you have please give, no matter how little, or forward this link to any other muslim or group who may help insha Allah.

    The brother is in dire need of help and he must be going through a lot psychologically too because the sister he was to marry recently got married to another brother.


    Akhi muhammad, sorry for hijacking your blog.

  4. There is no problem I am here to help in anyway that I can. I am glad that it is here for those who need it.

    May we all get blessings for our efforts. Amin

  5. Anonymous,

    I just saw your link.....And Iam going over to the site now.....
    jazakAllahu khair.for letti ng everyone know about this.....