Thursday, October 30, 2008


Well Not really. Today I went to court and my lawyer showed up Yay!! I got released from the monitor but all other things remain the same. I can't go within a mile of my wife and the kids and that is ok except for the kids part. So I am free to roam so I roamed and now I'm bushed. I went to the Masjid, I went to the Movies and saw Eagle Eye. I went to Cold Stone and had some ice cream. I went to the post office and I just relaxed. I went and saw a new lawyer and he looked promising. But I don't have any money to pay him. So I am off. I will start looking for a job next week. Probably something in security. I would love to do something in computers but hey it is what it is.Maybe if I could find something from 9-5 at night would be great. I could come home and sleep and then go to work. I hope to find something by the end of next week. make dua for me. I'm still working at my other job too so I will be hitting that too. Work any which way but loose I have got to do. Uggh. But hey I won't have my kids so I really won't need the sleep. I'll probably work all month just to pay my rent. Oh well. Well I'm free somewhat and that is all that really matters today.



  1. Asalaam alaikum,

    I don't get why you can't go near your kids. I mean, if the two of you both want YOU to be a father to the kids, I would think the both of you could work it out so that it can be, regardless of the court case. Too much personal feelings in the mix from both sides, getting in the way of what is better for the kids.

    This is why we are to turn to our OWN community first, whoever is appointed to help mediate Islamically. The non-Muslim system, to me, should be a total last resort. Allah SWT talks about this is the holy Qur'an, about us taking the disbelievers as allies...a sheikh I listened to gave an explanation of this relating to our current times, how going through the non-muslim channels for legal issues, etc., is the same thing, instead of going to those in authority in our own communities, and having patience. This whole scenario with your family is heartbreaking. SubhanaAllah, but its a major test for you. May Allah make it easy for you all, especially those children, ameen.

  2. Free time man, you ought to pick up Tim Ferriss's "The 4 Hour Work Week" to give you a few pointers on making $$$ in the least amount of time!

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