tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post5369943174372074809..comments2023-09-22T01:00:25.155-07:00Comments on The Single Polygamist: It just keeps on getting better.Muhammadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-15467189582838370582008-09-30T15:13:00.000-07:002008-09-30T15:13:00.000-07:00Yes and you can view that profile right here http:...Yes and you can view that profile right here <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11245091670297879652" REL="nofollow">http://www.blogger.com/profile/11245091670297879652</A><BR/><BR/>EnjoyMuhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-4257431492128350412008-09-30T12:32:00.000-07:002008-09-30T12:32:00.000-07:00I was just curious, way back when you both had a b...I was just curious, way back when you both had a blog relating to this subject, was not Sakinah`s blogname "Polygonylover"?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-39834815277828163502008-09-30T07:23:00.000-07:002008-09-30T07:23:00.000-07:00yeah, I believe I said this on a latter comment,"a...yeah, I believe I said this on a latter comment,<BR/><BR/>"also, living, giving someone nasiha isn't haram, but it does not translate well on type. Perhaps it seems harsher than originally intended."<BR/><BR/>Your nasiha is well taken. One of my favorite hadiths is to leave that things alone that do not pertain to us. Perhaps we should all stop writing personal information on blogs and stop Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-79097266217580166962008-09-28T04:24:00.000-07:002008-09-28T04:24:00.000-07:00Sorry but I was talking to everyone not just you. ...Sorry but I was talking to everyone not just you. The truth is it takes two to tango and Muhammad didnt have to asnwer any comments. IMHO it just kept things going. I brought up the fact that it is ramadan because we are not suppose to get angry but reading those post got me feeling uncomfortable so I am sure if they were directed at me I would have gotten a bit upset. This is a time for peace Livin_life_and loving_ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01585062855071604201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-18907761422538160192008-09-27T20:13:00.000-07:002008-09-27T20:13:00.000-07:00Like I said it is my fault for allowing financial ...Like I said it is my fault for allowing financial obligations to come into the family that my check alone could not support. That is my fault and I accept full responsibility for that. My wife did NOT have to work outside of the home, she chose to and when she did work outside of the home she chose to want things for the home that my income could not provide. In the beginning my income provided Muhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-21245954845430713292008-09-27T19:14:00.000-07:002008-09-27T19:14:00.000-07:00also, living, giving someone nasiha isn't haram, b...also, living, giving someone nasiha isn't haram, but it does not translate well on type. Perhaps it seems harsher than originally intended.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-66912048055405995302008-09-27T19:11:00.000-07:002008-09-27T19:11:00.000-07:00living, there is more than one anonymous. Also, s...living, there is more than one anonymous. Also, sometimes, people believe they are trying to help.<BR/><BR/>Not all the anonymous comments are insulting though.<BR/><BR/>But you are right, if a comment isn't helpful, then perhaps it shouldn't be said at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-6909810924251977292008-09-27T08:04:00.000-07:002008-09-27T08:04:00.000-07:00All I can say is Dang. I thought we were in Ramada...All I can say is Dang. I thought we were in Ramadan. It is so sad to see people act like this NOW.living life and lovin ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17809143702582740497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-76477367947007646952008-09-27T04:17:00.000-07:002008-09-27T04:17:00.000-07:00First of all brother, you and your ex-wife put you...First of all brother, you and your ex-wife put your family in the financial difficult situation. What happen to living within your means? Why is it your ex-wife's responsibility to work outside them home just make ends meet for the family? It is your responsibility has a muslim man to protector and provide for your family but the way it looks your wife has carried you and your family on her back.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-62410796421334861242008-09-26T22:50:00.000-07:002008-09-26T22:50:00.000-07:00AsSalaamu A'laikum Anon,First of all I am not angr...AsSalaamu A'laikum Anon,<BR/><BR/>First of all I am not angry, well not now but when you posted I suppose you caught me at just the correct moment, but no I am not angry. Hurt but not angry and yes I think it would take anyone a minute to recollect themselves after throwing 6 years of seemingly happy marriage down the tubes. Yeah you aren't ok for a while after that. So I am not going to argue Muhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-50767449349319687092008-09-26T18:19:00.000-07:002008-09-26T18:19:00.000-07:00I am not in a polygamous relationship. I am a rev...I am not in a polygamous relationship. I am a revert and before I reverted to Islam, it was a concern that i had. <BR/><BR/>Before getting married, I made sure that my spouse was okay with monogamy, or I would not have married him. It has never been an issue as his parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. are monogamous as well.<BR/><BR/>So, I am not projecting onto you anything. I Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-46289581281756704252008-09-26T16:36:00.000-07:002008-09-26T16:36:00.000-07:00First of all Allahu Alim, but the same can be said...First of all Allahu Alim, but the same can be said for taxes and a myriad of things that we support just by being in this country or any other country for that matter so that is a debate that I will not even enter.<BR/><BR/>Second of all I know exactly what I meant, and my financial, excuse me OUR financial problems didn't start with the domestic violence case they technically started when Muhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-7205432130790528612008-09-26T14:45:00.000-07:002008-09-26T14:45:00.000-07:00First of all, insha'Allah, I hope your "security c...First of all, insha'Allah, I hope your "security clearance" does not violate the rights of Muslims around the world.<BR/><BR/>Second of all, you use the words "financial difficulty", when you really mean, "domestic violence case". <BR/><BR/>You are refusing to take on any responsibility for your won actions. <BR/><BR/>Allah (SWT) says in the Quran that He does nto change a condition of a peopleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-14138065039300922192008-09-26T12:51:00.000-07:002008-09-26T12:51:00.000-07:00Well Nasrin it works like this. The government has...Well Nasrin it works like this. The government has secrets and it will go to great lengths to protect those secrets. It will do this by systematically closing all security weaknesses. One of the main secrets of security is basically Hardware or Human weaknesses. Human weaknesses are the ones most volatile and dangerous. Personnel with high risk behavior are generally more susceptible for securityMuhammadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407502245354820877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5939601.post-85092697908580174652008-09-26T09:20:00.000-07:002008-09-26T09:20:00.000-07:00They would fire you for having financial problems?...They would fire you for having financial problems? How is that possible?Nasrinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01903158496264455883noreply@blogger.com